The Juicy Detail, Previously Mentioned

I had an excellent day in court back on April 19 and we were feeling pretty confident. I was upset that the judge delayed her defense to June 2. She had shown up with her boss from her real J-O-B, as her only witness. When they arrived to court and realized that I was launching a massive attack on Quixtar with Cathleen Mann and Eric Scheibeler, she was able to get one of her upline, Adam, to come to court. He was the jerk who had moved in next door to her and had once kicked me out of her house. That was the extent of her defense, and now she would have a month and a half to mount a defense. So I was a little worried.

The next morning a got a secret phone call from her boss. She said her conscience had gotten to her and that there were things going on that I was not aware of, that was not in the best interest of Jonas. We met for lunch that day. She handed me my ex's employee file and three pages of questions she had taken the time to write out, to ask her in cross examination and that she would tell the truth. We went ahead and deposed her boss and the files. In court she told the truth and it was extremely damaging.

After the ruling that I would have full custody, my ex was devastated. Where did she go? To family? Nope. She went to her Quixtar "adopted mother", Evelyn. This lady called my ex's boss and chewed her out, blaming her for the loss. Well, my ex quit her J-O-B, even though she has to pay me $70 a week in child support. And, of course, she went to her Quixtar meeting this week.

She has standard visitation, despite the recommendation by my son's Ad Litem attorney to have more. Basically, that is every other weekend, four and half hours one night a week, five weeks in the summer, and shared holidays. If we can not agree on the night each week for visitation, the court forces it to be Tuesday night, which is Quixtar night. I can't decide if I should force her to have him that night to make a choice between him and Quixtar or let her continue in Quixtar and suffer until she figures it out for herself.

She still is blaming everyone, especially me, for the loss. She claims I paid the judge off, that he is an idiot. She said that any man who takes a child from its mother, will burn in hell. That includes me. She asked if I had paid off my "attorney whore". Despite the explicit ruling of why she lost and the powerful testimony against Quixtar, she can't accept the truth and take responsibility for her actions.

As my father says, "one must want the consequences of what one wants".